Should you stay or leave?
Deciding if you should ‘stay or leave a relationship’ is a serious and difficult decision to make. Regrets and resentment are hard to live with so it’s important you are clear about your reasons for ending your relationship, and for staying
Quite often people leave a relationship before determining what wasn’t working and why.
Or stay feeling stuck, unhappy and unfulfilled.
If we don’t first clarify why the relationship isn’t working for us, we may end up stuck in the same patterns and problems with a different partner.
It’s very important to understand the nature of the problem; what are our patterns and for what aspects of those patterns are we responsible - usually self-limiting thoughts and beliefs about ourselves, attachment injury, expectations, unidentified needs…
My coaching can help you make this life-changing decision as clearly, positively, and confidently as possible.
Client testimonial:
“My main goal was to make a decision to either stay or leave my relationship with my partner, and YES, I 100% achieved it!”
By having Nicole’s perspective and insight, along with the appropriate tools that she used, I was able to formulate my own decision that worked for me.
I gained so much perspective, as though I was able to view my relationship from a different lens, and that gave me the ability to become more optimistic about my relationship.
Nicole made me feel so absolutely comfortable and provided a safe space for me to be vulnerable without judgment. She’s has a caring and supportive nature and is very open and present, whilst also being very understanding - especially as I have children who would interrupt our sessions at times.
I would totally, and have already, recommended her to others!
Thank you so much for all the time you’ve invested in me, Nicole. I truly appreciate you and I wish you all the best for the future.”
— P Clair, New Zealand